It’s been quite a week. Here are some of the highlights of what I’ve been reading.
1. Charles Ramsey is a hero
The interview with Mr. Ramsey after the rescue was compelling. He comes across as a man of great compassion. I heard several people saying they thought “hero” was too strong a word, since “all” he did was call 911. But I like how this article in the New Yorker puts it:
But one phrase in particular, from the interview, is worth dwelling on: “I figured it was a domestic-violence dispute.” In many times and places, a line like that has been offered as an excuse for walking away, not for helping a woman break down your neighbor’s door. How many women have died as a result? They didn’t yesterday.
So, yes, Mr. Ramsey is a hero, and those hostages are free as a result.
2. And speaking of victims
This is a fascinating article on the fixation with crimes against white women and girls. Many years ago, a local girl was kidnapped and murdered by her neighbor. When she went missing, it was huge news. Everyone was in on it, and people were glued to the television. I remember my mother saying that she felt terrible for the girl and her family, but she was disappointed that yet again, a white girl’s plight was more important than all the missing non-white children. Things haven’t changed much in the intervening years.
3. Are Christians a persecuted minority?
The short answer is, “NO.” If you’d like a longer explanation, though, you can read one here by Myisha Cherry. I’m going to throw my own two cents in on this one. I don’t appreciate being lumped (by other Christians) into the category of “maligned.” I do not now, nor have I ever, felt as though I could not express my faith or my views–except as an LGBTQ ally in a conservative church. Even when I held those conservative views I didn’t feel persecuted. No one–not even my LGBTQ friends–ever told me to keep my mouth shut (though maybe they should have). On the other hand, I was asked to silence myself among conservatives. How much worse is it for those who cannot live authentic lives because of the disapproving words and actions of the church.
4. I have rage
In the last few weeks, I’ve had several online and in-person conversations with people about publishing and marketing and the biases there. Despite all that, apparently some men seem to think there’s nothing “for them” to read. Because the shelves at Barnes & Noble are not stocked with all kinds of action/adventure/spy novels or memoirs of football players and pro wrestlers, of course. There is nothing available that men would like, right? And of course, there are absolutely no men writing fantasy or science fiction, in case one likes those sorts of books. Most of the classics weren’t written by men with men as the main characters. But, you know, publishing is alienating half the population.
5. On finding our way again
Kassie Rutherford is a phenomenal writer. There is something compelling about her words; she has a knack for venturing deep into emotional territory in a safe way. This incredible post is about how beautiful our stories are, even if we’re the only ones who know them.
6. Sometimes, we’re all just tired
Andi Cumbo sums it up nicely in this post. Maybe, in the midst of all our weariness, we, too, can find sustenance in the things around us.
7. Guest post
I had the privilege of writing a guest post for Dianna Anderson this week for her series “Account and Countenance.” You can read it here.
That’s it for this week. Have a great weekend, and come back Monday. I will have my usual 50 Shades post plus a big announcement. See you then!